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Dawn's avatar

I have lost custody. I have not seen my daughter in four years, since June of 2018. I am terrified of going back to court, because of what will set her father off. We will always be in danger as long as he walks free. I believe all of this in Anne-Christines case. This is what happens to mothers across the world. No wonder children grow up, messed up. You cannot hide this from kids, especially when they lose contact with their mommy's who are their primary caregivers. My daughter and are were very bonded and she was afraid of her father, even at the age of one. It broke my heart to force her to see him. I was sending her the message to give up her innate ability to run away from danger, because family court said to. A positive change is definitely needed, YESTERDAY. No more training. Judges need to be held accountable for their decisions, no more immunity and independent public hearings on discipline for judges. They are people too and need to be treated as such. They are not above us and they do not know our family dynamics to make these decisions and destroy our lives. They need to be held accountable when they ignore facts, documented proof, and laws. The toll this is taking on Anne-Christines mom, Stephanie, is appalling too. This little boy witnessing his mommy murdered is so despicable. For this grandfather to try and adopt this boy, says a lot about him as well. Abusers family's ALWAYS stand by these monsters, same thing happened with us. They protect and enable their immediate family member the ability to continue their abusive ways. I have been fighting to get laws changed and to get to the root that judges are the problem for women and children. My thoughts are with Stephanie to get her grandson. My thoughts are with the child who will have a difficult road ahead, because of his father. 🙏 🫂

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Doc Blue's avatar

In re deciding the CUSTODY of CHILDREN, PLEASE W O R K to END judges doing so.

W O R K and PROTEST O N L Y for = = = . J U R Y . - DECISIONS in re kiddos' CUSTODY.

cuz Dr K Millett's p 33 - statement of her Sexual Politics of long ago ( y1970 )

WILL BE .T H E WAY. of CUSTODY DECISIONS ... ... F O R E V E R MORE. E L S E.

“ Patriarchy's chief ( THAT, Women, is C H I E F ) institution is ... ... THE FAMILY.

It is both a mirror of and a connection with the larger society;

... ... a patriarchal u n i t within a patriarchal w h o l e.

As the fundamental instrument and the foundation unit

of patriarchal society, the family and its roles are ... ... P R O T O T Y P I C A L. "

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