ADDED: The main moral of Britney’s story of having to trade her freedom for her children is that women will never be truly free until they have the power to keep and protect their children.
MOTHERS, K N O W thus TO YOUR CORES: " The Old Boys were not about to give up this unparalleled form of power just because women, finally, after 10 long millennia, gained a legal right to their children. No, the Boys simply devised a system that got around that pesky right: Family Court. "
Omg...TRADING FREEDOM...I love this. Im currently dealing with a very similar situation with no help. This is so uplifting in delivering hope,understanding to myself, other dealing with the same or similar issues. Brittany I promise you broke down each crucial step that effects me daily heavily but more than anything you definitely give me hope. Thank you so much it means more than you know it.
"Play by the Rules" or No Kids is exactly what occurs in family court. Brittany Spears knew she had to play the game in order to have any contact with her children. Family court does get around women's legal rights. Women in turn have to get around family court as best they can. Systemic male entitlement will continue to rule family court until a new system replaces it. Women must continue to fight for a new system.
I made it to 20 SWAT-like cops. How is this possible? Why would the law get involved with her parents sting? Who paid these cops? I'd like to know. And don't all abusers love to turn the tables and after having the cops called on them for actual violence, in retaliation they will take out a fake emergency r. order and send the cops over to your house when they think you might be vulnerable... as in "swatting". My ex did this to me from age 26 to 66 yrs old. 6 years after his death ongoing because he left a hit on me. Yes he had money. Yes I got full custody after 3 years of torture but a measly child support order of only $179 a month though he was heir-intent of a family fortune he could tap at will but they let him claim indigents every time he forced me back into court. But I let it go for 11 years without modifying because I knew the game was rigged, until I became disabled from working 16 hour days 7 days a week. Eight more years of court before they would charge him with contempt if he didn't pay all those years in arrears, in full plus interest which he did easily to avoid jail but then ratcheted up the gangstalking and cybercrime where we are today; domestic terrorism organized by the the United States government. Things don't look like they're getting any better anytime soon for Women, especially mothers. Thanks for this post, TWC.
I was convinced to go to rehab also right away when they took my daughter although having almost 10 yrs sober. I did it to appease the courts. Which then in turn was used against me.
Haven't YOU MOTHERS figured T H I S OUT YET ? ¿ Christians, Taliban, Islamic State, Judaists, Buddhists, Mormons, Hamas, ALL religionists ? INSIDE THE ENTIRE WORLD'S " FAMILY " " LAW " COURTROOMS, ITS JUDGES, MALE or FEMALE ? = P A T R I A R C H Y ALL.
I " G I V E " NOT one muck. TO A N Y such.
The haunting and gripping TRUTH:
e v e r y t h i n g IN the World's Patriarchy P A R S E S down,
e v e r y t h i n g does, ABSOLUTELY everything does INCL A L L WARS E V E R Y W H E R E, ... ...
... ... AND T H A T MEANS INSIDE " FAMILY " " LAW " COURTROOM - DECISIONS =
= to C O N T R O L L I N G / to OPPRESSING / to WIELDING DOMINION OVER /
to SUBJUGATING, S T I L L, Us disobedient and uppity and wikkid ... ... Wimminz.
FOR thousands and thousands, FOR, at least, ~12,000 years =
God Knows All and Sees All. The Children are his, uniquely created and chosen to be born by each spirited selected Mother.
There is only 1 and Final judge. We got nothing but Time and I’ll make sure all of you who invested your evil doings or watched as evil was working against my child and I for the sidelines that you will never forget until you die, my face and what you did to us.
Ex, a medical doctor and n e v e r before any sort of a religionist, SUDDENLY JUST BEFORE the VERY FIRST ( of seven years' worth and three trials and two appeals all of which I, the mother utterly all lost ) courtroom appearance in re our three children's CUSTODY war, is genuflecting all over the noontime worship services of Saints Jebus and Mo's Holy Roman Muck inside the USA's Midwest.
Now and RIGHT AFTER THOSE SEVEN YEARS' TIME ? 45 years' time later, he again is n e v e r seen inside any such structure. Why not ? the PUBLIC displaying of A N Y religion = its millennial - old PATRIARCHAL MUCK = got for him exactly what he wanted without himself actually killing me off ( he, thereby, losing his public persona and likely his high - dollar $ professional - freedom ): DOMINION OVER / SUBJUGATION OF / VENGEANCE- SEEKING OF the uppity, disobedient, wikkid ... ... me.
ADDED: The main moral of Britney’s story of having to trade her freedom for her children is that women will never be truly free until they have the power to keep and protect their children.
MOTHERS, K N O W thus TO YOUR CORES: " The Old Boys were not about to give up this unparalleled form of power just because women, finally, after 10 long millennia, gained a legal right to their children. No, the Boys simply devised a system that got around that pesky right: Family Court. "
Dr Maas
Omg...TRADING FREEDOM...I love this. Im currently dealing with a very similar situation with no help. This is so uplifting in delivering hope,understanding to myself, other dealing with the same or similar issues. Brittany I promise you broke down each crucial step that effects me daily heavily but more than anything you definitely give me hope. Thank you so much it means more than you know it.
"Play by the Rules" or No Kids is exactly what occurs in family court. Brittany Spears knew she had to play the game in order to have any contact with her children. Family court does get around women's legal rights. Women in turn have to get around family court as best they can. Systemic male entitlement will continue to rule family court until a new system replaces it. Women must continue to fight for a new system.
I made it to 20 SWAT-like cops. How is this possible? Why would the law get involved with her parents sting? Who paid these cops? I'd like to know. And don't all abusers love to turn the tables and after having the cops called on them for actual violence, in retaliation they will take out a fake emergency r. order and send the cops over to your house when they think you might be vulnerable... as in "swatting". My ex did this to me from age 26 to 66 yrs old. 6 years after his death ongoing because he left a hit on me. Yes he had money. Yes I got full custody after 3 years of torture but a measly child support order of only $179 a month though he was heir-intent of a family fortune he could tap at will but they let him claim indigents every time he forced me back into court. But I let it go for 11 years without modifying because I knew the game was rigged, until I became disabled from working 16 hour days 7 days a week. Eight more years of court before they would charge him with contempt if he didn't pay all those years in arrears, in full plus interest which he did easily to avoid jail but then ratcheted up the gangstalking and cybercrime where we are today; domestic terrorism organized by the the United States government. Things don't look like they're getting any better anytime soon for Women, especially mothers. Thanks for this post, TWC.
I was convinced to go to rehab also right away when they took my daughter although having almost 10 yrs sober. I did it to appease the courts. Which then in turn was used against me.
Yeah they get into your medical records. They tried to demonize me for going on high blood pressure treatment caused by Court
Haven't YOU MOTHERS figured T H I S OUT YET ? ¿ Christians, Taliban, Islamic State, Judaists, Buddhists, Mormons, Hamas, ALL religionists ? INSIDE THE ENTIRE WORLD'S " FAMILY " " LAW " COURTROOMS, ITS JUDGES, MALE or FEMALE ? = P A T R I A R C H Y ALL.
I " G I V E " NOT one muck. TO A N Y such.
The haunting and gripping TRUTH:
e v e r y t h i n g IN the World's Patriarchy P A R S E S down,
e v e r y t h i n g does, ABSOLUTELY everything does INCL A L L WARS E V E R Y W H E R E, ... ...
... ... AND T H A T MEANS INSIDE " FAMILY " " LAW " COURTROOM - DECISIONS =
= to C O N T R O L L I N G / to OPPRESSING / to WIELDING DOMINION OVER /
to SUBJUGATING, S T I L L, Us disobedient and uppity and wikkid ... ... Wimminz.
FOR thousands and thousands, FOR, at least, ~12,000 years =
= this PATRIARCHY.
PLEASE. PLEASE. GET T H I S FIGURED OUT.
Dr Maas
God Knows All and Sees All. The Children are his, uniquely created and chosen to be born by each spirited selected Mother.
There is only 1 and Final judge. We got nothing but Time and I’ll make sure all of you who invested your evil doings or watched as evil was working against my child and I for the sidelines that you will never forget until you die, my face and what you did to us.
Ex, a medical doctor and n e v e r before any sort of a religionist, SUDDENLY JUST BEFORE the VERY FIRST ( of seven years' worth and three trials and two appeals all of which I, the mother utterly all lost ) courtroom appearance in re our three children's CUSTODY war, is genuflecting all over the noontime worship services of Saints Jebus and Mo's Holy Roman Muck inside the USA's Midwest.
Now and RIGHT AFTER THOSE SEVEN YEARS' TIME ? 45 years' time later, he again is n e v e r seen inside any such structure. Why not ? the PUBLIC displaying of A N Y religion = its millennial - old PATRIARCHAL MUCK = got for him exactly what he wanted without himself actually killing me off ( he, thereby, losing his public persona and likely his high - dollar $ professional - freedom ): DOMINION OVER / SUBJUGATION OF / VENGEANCE- SEEKING OF the uppity, disobedient, wikkid ... ... me.
Dr Maas
I’m right there with ya….
Sickens me to my core 😡