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Christine's case is so familiar. Family court judges are giving custody of children to fathers that ask for it. It does not matter if these males are abusive. Family court judges have the power to do this no matter what the circumstances. The safety of the child does not matter to these judges. Children are viewed as male property in family court. These judges allow male entitlement to direct their decisions. Family court judges enable abusive fathers to further abuse children. Facts and evidence do not matter. Family court judges discredit, blame and falsely call loving mothers mentally ill. Mothers and their children suffer. There are no consequences for family court judges. This is what is occurring in family court and why it needs to end. Family court judges must be disempowered. Mothers need to continue to come together. Women must be empowered to begin a new system. The only way mothers can protect their children is to disempower family court judges.

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It's called case fixing and it's a Ricoh violation these Family Court judges and their minions are doing this to women through their children and it is dictated through fatherhood.gov noticing there is no motherhood.gov and exercise through HHS down to every government agency that gets funding to keep this money train going I am from Northern California I am 42 years in deep with this MRA sanctioned s*** show that is pulling the strings behind the scenes that these judges dance to I dated someone in high school who became an advocate for abusive man and is responsible for tutoring other abusers on how to do this to their former wives who they hate and what to torture like they tortured when they were in the same home together there is a Playbook I know what it is and I know who the players are and I want my say and I want to expose the forensics I did on my own story which is lifelong Cradle to grave no lit up full court press and every time I open my mouth they retaliate and I have documented it every time and then I have documented the retaliation that happens afterwards I want to do this before I take on any other project even though I would rather be cradling my new grandchildren who they are also after now as the final frontier of my decades long punishment and torture and still I stand

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In re this muck, I had wondered when I first read about IT elsewhere, IF YOU, Ms Dumas, had seen this w r o n g l y described one ! JEBUS CRIKEY = T H U S IT SOOOO IS = " a desperate and unwinnable quest by a mother to protect her child from serious, serial sexual assaults. A better title would have been: ' Is It in the Child’s Best Interest to Give Custody to a Father Whose Son Is Clearly Saying He’s Being Repeatedly Molested and There’s a Shitload of Evidence that Proves It ? ' "

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So, here is what I understand and have experienced. If the custody evaluator can't find what they believe the family court system to deem alienation by the safe parent to the abuser then they twist everything they can to come up with another reason to take the children from the safe parent. They also completely disregard the abuse evidence and or twist it to their agenda and then the Judge buries the evidence by suppressing it or not even allowing it in from the beginning. The judges also don't follow the existing rules of court, case law, or statutes. This is a monster that needs to be attacked from many different angles there needs to be judicial immunity abolished, new rules and laws, mandatory ongoing coercive control training and trauma recognition training, training on unlearning biases, cleaning house with charges in racketeering etc, I could go on.

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There is no “safe parent” crisis. It is a gendered epidemic. Judges are not routinely falsely finding fathers to be lying, alienating or mentally ill and switching custody to abusive mothers. And sorry to say none of the things you list will end the crisis because the family court system is designed to entitle and empower men. We need to get our cases into the regular civil court system. This video may help: https://youtu.be/Wgo4Rpvy7bc

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I understand what you are saying in your video and you are absolutely correct that it is misogyny and the patriarchy that is the underlying core of the issue. Reunification therapy and camps, guardian ad litems, custody evaluators and all of the other circus performers we're put in place by the patriarchy.The one thing that you're not understanding is that women do not under federal law IE the ERA have equal rights to men in the US. It would be a lovely idea to get rid of family court altogether, but if you have ever worked in corporate America or gone against the patriarchy it is usually easier to clean out the corruption and apply bandaids than it is to end the entire system. I mean if we could take them down like the mafia that would be wonderful. Because I do agree ending the entire system would be the Utopia. And I 100%, know that it is a system stacked against women, but there are a very select few abusive mothers out there also.

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I have a mom who may lose her kids due to a parental alienation allegation. How can she get support? Minnesota.

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Commonality......AFCC.... for the majority of women with children being forced into family courts, find themselves in the same situation and dialog across the country. Judges and lawyers know the script including the well known appointed GALS, CPS, therapists, court reporters, etc. Women are being abused legally and financially in the courtroom and legally, financially and emotionally outside the courtroom. These courts that do not follow any form of the particular state civil procedures, etc. Most states do not allow juries hence abolishing rights. Court costs, fines, lawyers fees, and jail time are more in a family court versus criminal courts. Women are being criminally prosecuted in family courts and children are being exposed to and experiencing the highest levels of abuse - in a governmental and taxpayer system. The corruption between the group of inside lawyers and judges using DV funded programs and draining families is unbelievable. The families have been silenced and the media has been warned. The reporters are thrown out of the courtrooms and are not given access to the complete public records. It has evolved into a money making machine that no one will investigate. Within the last couple of years, social media has begun to break the silence with everyone having the familiar experience. AFCC is one of the main organizations creating the dialogue being carried out in the courtrooms.

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This story brings back so many memories from my personal experience in family court. It ruined my life I had built along with a 22 year old business I built. My mental health and daughters mental previously stellar and proven into two PTSD diagnosed victims of legal stalking through the courts.

I have an 8 years of unpaid experience from the years I volunteered and advocated for mothers and the children who were being forced into visitation and sometimes custody with their EVIDENCED abusers. The courts used alienation and coaching techniques to switch custody. Defenders of Children were involved with my case and I represented Safe Kids International writing letters to judges about to make rulings that would harm children.

I wish there was a paying job that I could do to help but I will do what I can voluntarily. It took years but the ugly truth all bubbled to the surface proving my entire case was tilted in favor of a criminal, abuser, stalker with sexual deviancy.

This has been going on FAR TOO long. These supporters of abusers over loving mothers need to be removed from their positions.

I have the revocation of the license of the first psychologist who flipped my case in the fathers favor. I backchecked this guy and his education credentials were false as was his "senior pastoral" position he enjoyed and used for years. I wrote a detailed complaint to the Board of Behavioral Health against the guy for recklessness and a dual relationship. In the end it was way worse than that.

It took years and years of work for us to recover just from the mental abuse and terrorism allowed to be perpetrated on our little previously happy lives through the family court.

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I'm looking for support or resources for a mother who could lose her kids due to the parental alienation allegation. How can she find mentorship and good advice? How can she best support her kids?

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Jesus Christ. This is a concerted govt/church effort. It ain't just an industry although that it is. There will always be psychopaths ready to exploit other people's(READ: WOMEN) pain that they actually create to do so. I'm sick to death of media even making a mediocre attempt. No one that is not neck deep in it understands it because they are not interested in violence against women or our children it's just to dirty and of course that falls on the woman because men are just so fragile they cannot handle life when they are held accountable for their b******* by the women in their life and don't all the handmaidens trip over themselves to get to their healing while the pantsless black robe judges piss all over them so they do their bidding and don't get shoved into the mire like the rest of us. Anyone want to see the MRA Playbook I got it.

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Why mince words? This is "legal kidnap." It can't possibly reflect merely a judge's preference for Dads. Anyway, many family court judges are female. They are involved in a racket. My 2023 book "Society Is the Authority" recommends treating criminal officials as criminal. Here's the book. Go right to Chapter 5. https://gumshoenews.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Society_Is_the_Authority.pdf

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Actually there is only one crisis/epidemic in family courts and it is not gender neutral kidnapping. It is judges falsely finding mothers to be some version of mad or bad, using that to switch custody to the father, and allowing the father to keep the child away from the mother. Women judges go along with the patriarchy/sexism because it benefits them: more status, power, money, a warm seat at the Old Boys table, etc. They are selling us out and there is a special place in hell for them...

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