I watched that video. I balled my eyes out, your children are in such distress. I remember my child crying and holding on to the door jam, before we even left for her supervised visits. I did not tell her where we were going, but she knew. It broke my heart to force her to let her innate guard down. I felt that was sending her a bad message and that she was seeing her mommy make her do this. She must have felt as though I did not care about her well being, but that was and is simply not true, because they are so little they don't understand. Then again I am not little and family court makes no sense to me either. My daughter has been verbally, psychologically, and severely physically abused by her father. He has a past DV conviction with another women that I knew nothing of, until divorce proceedings began. I relate to this so well. I feel your children's pain. I did not follow a court order to keep placing my child in an abusive environment, so as a result I have had zero contact with my daughter for years. It will be four years in June, since I last saw her. He has sole custody. My baby girl is forced to be raised without me and has to live with her monster. Her entire life has been ruined. I live in the U.S. I don’t know how you stay strong, but you are. There are people who are here for you and your children. My thoughts and heart are with you. I wish you a positive outcome.
My daughter used to shake in terror when her father came to pick her up, but I had enough money to get a lawyer to write a contract so that if she refused to be with him (she was 13 and the laws can sometimes be a little looser with teenagers than with young children because police don't want to deal with older kids) she didn't have to go. These judges should see the horrific damage they are doing and the danger they are putting these kids in, and these 'transfers' of children should be widely publicized to expose and shame them for their callous decisions.
Hi my name is Deanna iam going through the same thing here in AZ I reported my daughter s abuse at her dad's house from step mom and molestation I lost my residence ual custody and he got most of everything now the abuse toward me is worse mentally emotionally threats uses my daughter to have control I have over 200 pictures of abuse n neglect DCs family court judge put her right back in the home my daughter n I both live in fear to silence us I want to go viral in hopes to get some support tera to fight against child abuse that the parent n children are heard and not treated like we're crazy when all we are trying to do as mother's is the right thing protect our children the judge have him our his wife any sccountibilty so the abuse continues n there is nothing I can do but watch my daughter live the way she lives and no one helped her I could not even it feels hopeless
I couldn’t watch too much. It ripped my soul apart. As a mother I cannot imagine my children screaming and begging me not to leave them there .. with basically no other choice. It’s a mothers worst nightmare besides losing a child.to see any innocent child in pain - is horrifying!!! I want to help this woman & her children. Idk how I can get into contact - but .. they need help. We all need to unite and start helping these children and their family members who are trying so hard to protect their babies. We can come together. Raise money for court fees. Private investigators . Safe houses. Support Not only in person - but on social media - to have a platform to put the “Justice System” on blast!!!!! NO ONE is coming to save us or our children!! We as mothers - we as women - must unite and rise. If not us - then who?!? If not now - then when!???
So sorry for her and her children…. I went throuht the same hell. Family court has to change and protect our children not the abusers! So so sad… There is no words to describe the pain and suffering we went throught. Hell on earth and nobody to help. 🥲
Mine went from this to now robotic. Now they HAVE to act as though they hate me. It started with this… they were punished for doing this… and if I didn’t act like all was fine, I would lose the rest of the little time I had. I did everything I knew and never once said the truth, and now haven’t even had ‘supervised’ visits for almost one year. This has been going on in total almost 6yrs.
We HAVE to always say/suggest/show that we are not ‘alienating’ or this will QUICKLY get flipped on us. We HAVE to be so.very.careful. If you don’t believe me, look at other similar vids comments. For ALL OF OUR PROTECTION - for our babes & this horrific battle - PLEASE be so very careful with how you show this publicly - we can do this - we just need to be careful. I am so tired of this getting flipped on us. Love u mamas.
Could not watch very much. Just smashes my heart so aweful what the hell is wrong with stupid ass judges that that let this shit happen.
Oh dear Nina,
I watched that video. I balled my eyes out, your children are in such distress. I remember my child crying and holding on to the door jam, before we even left for her supervised visits. I did not tell her where we were going, but she knew. It broke my heart to force her to let her innate guard down. I felt that was sending her a bad message and that she was seeing her mommy make her do this. She must have felt as though I did not care about her well being, but that was and is simply not true, because they are so little they don't understand. Then again I am not little and family court makes no sense to me either. My daughter has been verbally, psychologically, and severely physically abused by her father. He has a past DV conviction with another women that I knew nothing of, until divorce proceedings began. I relate to this so well. I feel your children's pain. I did not follow a court order to keep placing my child in an abusive environment, so as a result I have had zero contact with my daughter for years. It will be four years in June, since I last saw her. He has sole custody. My baby girl is forced to be raised without me and has to live with her monster. Her entire life has been ruined. I live in the U.S. I don’t know how you stay strong, but you are. There are people who are here for you and your children. My thoughts and heart are with you. I wish you a positive outcome.
Nina I am so sorry this is happening to you too. . . I am there and my children have already been taken from me as a result of my refusal to accept their court ordered abuse: https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:6924139243334234112/
Horrible for these innocent children 😪
My daughter used to shake in terror when her father came to pick her up, but I had enough money to get a lawyer to write a contract so that if she refused to be with him (she was 13 and the laws can sometimes be a little looser with teenagers than with young children because police don't want to deal with older kids) she didn't have to go. These judges should see the horrific damage they are doing and the danger they are putting these kids in, and these 'transfers' of children should be widely publicized to expose and shame them for their callous decisions.
We je d to come together and fight for our children to feel safe
Hi my name is Deanna iam going through the same thing here in AZ I reported my daughter s abuse at her dad's house from step mom and molestation I lost my residence ual custody and he got most of everything now the abuse toward me is worse mentally emotionally threats uses my daughter to have control I have over 200 pictures of abuse n neglect DCs family court judge put her right back in the home my daughter n I both live in fear to silence us I want to go viral in hopes to get some support tera to fight against child abuse that the parent n children are heard and not treated like we're crazy when all we are trying to do as mother's is the right thing protect our children the judge have him our his wife any sccountibilty so the abuse continues n there is nothing I can do but watch my daughter live the way she lives and no one helped her I could not even it feels hopeless
I couldn’t watch too much. It ripped my soul apart. As a mother I cannot imagine my children screaming and begging me not to leave them there .. with basically no other choice. It’s a mothers worst nightmare besides losing a child.to see any innocent child in pain - is horrifying!!! I want to help this woman & her children. Idk how I can get into contact - but .. they need help. We all need to unite and start helping these children and their family members who are trying so hard to protect their babies. We can come together. Raise money for court fees. Private investigators . Safe houses. Support Not only in person - but on social media - to have a platform to put the “Justice System” on blast!!!!! NO ONE is coming to save us or our children!! We as mothers - we as women - must unite and rise. If not us - then who?!? If not now - then when!???
So sorry for her and her children…. I went throuht the same hell. Family court has to change and protect our children not the abusers! So so sad… There is no words to describe the pain and suffering we went throught. Hell on earth and nobody to help. 🥲
Mine went from this to now robotic. Now they HAVE to act as though they hate me. It started with this… they were punished for doing this… and if I didn’t act like all was fine, I would lose the rest of the little time I had. I did everything I knew and never once said the truth, and now haven’t even had ‘supervised’ visits for almost one year. This has been going on in total almost 6yrs.
We HAVE to always say/suggest/show that we are not ‘alienating’ or this will QUICKLY get flipped on us. We HAVE to be so.very.careful. If you don’t believe me, look at other similar vids comments. For ALL OF OUR PROTECTION - for our babes & this horrific battle - PLEASE be so very careful with how you show this publicly - we can do this - we just need to be careful. I am so tired of this getting flipped on us. Love u mamas.