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I lost custody of my then 4 school aged children 23 years ago and was soon deleted from their lives. Parent alienation and brainwashing by a vengeful father, like venom that slowly spreads throughout the victim's body paralyzing and killing it from inside out. It destroyed not just my family, but my life in every way possible. As the years went by and my children never returned back to me. my time as a competent, nurturing stay at home mother faded into the past. At some point I came to the exact same conclusion that is proposed in this article: have your children via sperm donor outside of marriage or a committed life partner relationship so that you will never loose custody of them. Not such a radical idea anymore.

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Family court judges endanger children. They knowingly give child custody to abusers. Males that request custody usually get it. It doesn't matter if they're abusive. It doesn't matter if they're married to the mother, are the biological father or are rapists. Women cannot protect their children in family court. Mothers should automatically have legal and physical custody of children when the relationship ends. There should be no judicial or court intervention. Women having children solo is a needed consideration. Family court must end.

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Powerful and heartbreaking 💔 What a brave woman 💜✊

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